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Sunday, July 30, 2006 

Blooming flowers & therapy day

It has been a very productive day in many ways. Made a visit to the hotel to discuss our timeline for decisions on the menu selection, decorations, food tasting and music licensing permit for the wedding.

Then I went to a florist and was quite impressed with the selection of flowers available. They're quite reasonably priced, for loose stalks at least. I was thrilled to find all the flowers we had in mind readily available - tulips and an assortment of lilies - white calla lily bulbs, white lilies and stargazer lilies. I would have loved to stay longer to look through all the flowers but it was cold in that highly air-conditioned "flower-supermarket". But at least now I know where to find what we want.

Next, I headed for my facial appointment. I can't remember the last time I did one. I'm not a regular at any form of therapy. But since I've been told my skin is dehydrated, I had to start doing something about it now. The beautician didn't think I started early enough, so she worked on me for 2 hours using an intensive hydrating mask she called "quenching thirst". It's the first time I've had a mask made of yogurt put on me. I really enjoyed it.

At the end of the session, she gave me some cream for the eyes and lips, and a blemish control to apply daily. She'll work on the hydrating process and eye treatment once every 3 weeks but I've got to keep my side of the bargain by doing my homework - apply those cream diligently. At the end of it all, she offered me advise on the most natural and free skincare regime to help create a radiant look - drink lots of water, sleep early and be happy. She also suggested an all-time "beauty diet" to follow - less chillies, no cold drinks, less coffee.

During the 2-hour session, we chatted and the topic of makeup come about. It turns out that they do bridal makeup too, and was featured in The Wedding Book. Just then, I recall seeing it in my copy. After seeing more samples and knowing some of their previous happy clients, we're arranging for a trial for both makeup and hairdo, complete with whatever tiara or pearl-drop pins I want. I hope this one works out so that I'll have one less thing to worry about.

On the other side, my better half went home to Muar to see to a couple of things. Little by little, we're starting to put in place all the jigsaw pieces to make this real. As much work as it is to organize a wedding, I think I'll miss all these activities once our big day is done with.

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Hope you get what you want - lovely flowers, makeup and hairdo - on your wedding day!

sounds like you are having fun. Mm...who is this beautician? Dermalogica by any chance?
Oh you got to fill me in with all those details...hopefully one day when I need it you will help out. Oh btw, Pei and Pat agreed to be my bridesmaid (special ones as they will be married by then)when I get married one day and you will be the first person I can think of as a wedding planner! haha...I think you are doing fantastically well.

dancing queen, i hope so too...i really have to admit it is quite fun sourcing around and finding reasonable prices. cheap thrill? :P

ju, wow, so fast you've booked them for bridesmaids! hehe. so then i suppose they'll be your maids of honour. i sure would love to help plan your wedding...just tell me when! :) no i didn't use dermalogica. the beautician is a private owned shop called Beauty Haven.

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Friday, July 21, 2006 

The last mile to a new beginning

We're finally done with our last step of the Engaged Encounter program - the prenuptial enquiry. It was rather quick, just a half hour meeting with the priest to answer questions and sign on them.

Back in January we attended this compulsory marriage course and found that it has helped us and hopefully it will continue to grow us along together.

Ideas & tips welcomed

Thursday, July 20, 2006 

Adding a touch of humour to the cake

Never seen any wedding cake like this before...

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It's so unique. Am sure it will be remembered for a long, long time to come. I had a dog and bone on top of my wedding cake. :)

it is eh, but i don't think i dare use such figurines to insult myself! haha. do you still have your dog & bone?

i still have the bone! I posted a picture of it in one of my earlier entries.

it must give you some very sweet memories... put it on your anniversary celebration cake when it comes! :P

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Tuesday, July 18, 2006 

Love is a decision

A friend sent me a good article on love in a marriage. It's definitely something I want to keep and come back to if and when the goings get tough. I'm realistic about life - nothing is perfect and there will never be a 100% smooth relationship that lasts a whole lifetime for any two people. There will be moments we will have to endure and I hope we will endure them together, holding on to each other and the lessons from this:
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During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said,"How do I know if I married the right person?"

I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?"

In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love."

Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage. Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

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Years down the road, when things get a bit mundane, talk about how you met. It always brings us closer.

that's a good topic to start with :) thanks for the tip!

actually couples have to work for things to happen esp after the first couple of honeymoon years. i supposed hubby and i loved each other more these days

babe_kl, i agree. nothing comes easy. so sweet to hear you and hubby have grown to love each other more :)

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Monday, July 17, 2006 

The search continues

I was pretty confident from my previous visit to Bobbi Brown that I liked their makeup style because it was very natural, clean and refreshing. Well, at least it was evident on their bridal brochures, pictures and even on the girls who serve at the counter. So yesterday I finally went for my first bridal makeup trial with them. The girl took pain and patience in trimming and shaping my thick brows, applying extra layers of moisturizer on my skin and doing the makeup. The whole process was about 1.5 hours (including asking her to remove the makeup when we were done observing the look).

She applied one side of the eye a lighter and more natural shade while the other had a darker contour to it and asked which I preferred. The makeup wasn’t quite what I expected. I looked rather messy and appeared to have a tan skin tone instead of a fresh-faced look. The makeup also seemed to have caked up on my face. She explained that it’s because my skin is too dry and therefore not absorbing the powder well, despite the extra layer of moisturizer.

In a way I was rather disappointed that it didn’t turn out well. I paid RM80 for the trial only to eliminate them, but gained a little advice on keeping my skin moist and hydrated. Now I have over 2 months to do something about this – use hydrating masks frequently and apply moisturizer diligently. I admit I haven’t been using a moisturizer for months!

The search for makeup artists continues…

Ideas & tips welcomed

Saturday, July 15, 2006 

All's well ends well

I was quite nervous about today. Firstly, we had an appointment to meet Father Philip for our prenuptial enquiry. Next was an appointment with the bridal shop to choose our wedding photos.

When we got to the church, Ray realised that he had left the documents at home. We saw Father anyway and decided to schedule for another time. We left and headed to the bridal appointment.

We arrived at the bridal shop at 11a.m. The night before, I was quite anxious about this and even dreamt of it. I was worried that I'd not like the photos because of how I would look with make-up. I never wear any and don't even own a lipstick.

The girl at the shop made us tea and we waited while she downloaded our photos into the Mac. Then we were seated and she proceeded to show us all the photos in a slideshow with Minuet in G playing in the background. Well, I'm glad to say at first glance I didn't wince at myself and I actually thought the majority of them look nice.

The slideshow ended and now we were given all the time we need to pick and choose. Our starting point was 171 pictures. At first Ray and I were quite optimistic thinking that we will not be sucked into buying the whole lot. So we begin eliminating right away. By the time we were done with our 1st round elimination, we had around 120 pictures.

We started our 2nd round elimination and that's when the girl came with a pot of tea instead of our initial one cup each. She must have seen enough to know that we won't be done anytime soon. When we finished round 2 and 3, we ended up with 97 photos.

Now we did some calculation and decided to negotiate to purchase the extra photos we had chosen. This was when things got a little heated between us and the girl who must've assumed we printed money. We were quoted RM2,000 for the extras to be printed into albums! Even if we didn't print them and just want the softcopy, it cost us RM50 per picture. It was ridiculous.

So off we headed back to the Mac and decided to trim our selection further. After a long time, we eventually ended up with 67 pictures. This was the last cut. By now, the girl at the shop knew that we are capable of cutting down more and more so she offered to let us purchase all the 171 pictures with editing thrown in for RM1,150. But the offer came too late as we were already happy with our trimmed selection and wanted to stick to it and not pay anything more.

By the time we were finished with the bridal shop, it was almost 5p.m. Couldn't believe we spent close to 6 hours just to choose the photos, and we didn't even have lunch! But most importantly, both of us are happy with the pictures and I can sleep fitfully tonight.

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These photo studios sure know how to make money! Anyway, good thing you like them, so might as well just get them for posterity's sake. So, when are you going to let us have a glimpse of it?:)

they sure know how to squeeze every cent out of clients! oh well, what to do, once in a lifetime photos, huh? :) i don't think we'll get the copies anytime soon. probably only in sept, so no glimpses yet...

wow bloody expensive!

hahaha... the very famous line "once in a lifetime"... really got every bride and groom suckered into getting things

babe_kl, yeah la it's because of this "once in a lifetime" opportunity that the bridal houses are squeezing every $$ out of couples!

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Friday, July 07, 2006 

3 months to go


Exactly 3 months from today, we'll be exchanging vows. It seems like we've been planning for so long and looking forward to the wedding, but didn't realise that time had passed us by so quickly. The date is soon approaching. And before we know it, it'll be all over with the wedding and we'll begin a new life chapter.

Ideas & tips welcomed

Tuesday, July 04, 2006 

The magic of a white gown

There’s something about wearing that white wedding gown that makes a woman feel special. Well, if not for all women, at least I’m speaking for myself. When we went for our photoshoot recently, I had ample time flaunting myself in 3 different wedding gowns. I loved the feeling. I can’t explain why. Maybe it is a once in a lifetime thing that makes it so special.

I love this french-laced satin Victorian wedding gown. It's really heavy to pull off and rather grand, that's why I chose to wear it only for the photoshoot. This picture was "illegally" taken with a phone camera during the shoot. I liked this picture best because of the gown. I look nothing like me but I suppose the focus here is more on the gown.

I wonder if any bride had felt reluctant when getting out of the gown at the end of the wedding day. For those who owns a wedding gown, I wonder if they secretly put them on and admire themselves in the mirror long after the wedding. I wonder if I will do that years down the road.

Will that be silly or what?

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You look so demure in this pose... Can't wait to see you in the other gowns! Oh, you will be such a radiant bride on your wedding day!

I'm still keeping mine but there's no way I can fit into it ever! Lelong, who wants to buy my wedding gown? Cheap, cheap! LOL!

dancing queen, thank you...i give credit to the photographer for all the poses he put us in.

i have to start getting 8 hours of sleep everynight from now to make sure i get that radiance!

don't sell your gown....it's precious! :)

Resplendent is the word! You look really gorgeous Eternity. Ray is definitely a very lucky guy. Can't imagine how pretty you will look on your day! :)
CONGRATs...

ju, i hope ray reads this. haha. i wish you could come for the wedding too...but you're so far away. i'll send you photos :)

serious at first glance i thot u took the pic from some online gown shop :p btw, i've never taken my wedding gown out from the plastic protector since i took it back from the dry cleaner haha i doubt i could fit into it!

babe kl, the gown is really something huh? i really love it. hmm, so your wedding gown is gonna be a family heirloom? :)

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Sunday, July 02, 2006 

Our Anniversary

Today is our 5th year anniversary as a couple. I made a gift for Ray, using our special song that we've shared for the last 5 years. The lyrics are most meaningful to us.

Note: The file is really huge and the buffering is slower than the speed of the video. So I suggest you let the file load first before playing it. Click on the "Play" button, then pause it and let it load. When it's done, click on "Play" again to watch it without disruptions.
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wow what a handsome couple! hmm this reminds me of my registration anniversary which is tomorrow!!!

Thanks for sharing the video. My first thought was - both of you have 'fu chai seong'. You look alike and that's a good sign. :)

babe kl, *blush blush* happy anniversary! any tips on married life? :)

bkworm, no one ever said that we have 'fu chai seong' before. you're the first! :)

Your marriage shows alot of promise and you just have to work on it long after the fireworks are gone. Once you overcome that, love just gets better and better.

Hubby and I have been married for 13 years now and believe it or not, we think we are more in love now than we were when we first got married! Don't let monotony & complacency rule your marriage. Spice it up every now and then!:-)

dancing queen, thanks for the marriage advise. i agree it has to be worked on and both have to be committed to want to work on it.

you're very blessed to be happily married for 13 years and still enjoy the sparkle! wishing you more to come all through the years. :)

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Saturday, July 01, 2006 

A full day of posing and smiling

We started our day with breakfast before getting to the studio for the photoshoot. I chose 4 gowns - 2 white wedding gowns and 2 evening gowns in yellow and maroon. Ray had matching outfit for each of my gown, too.

When we got to the bridal house, everyone was friendly and I appreciate that very much because Ray and I wanted to be in a light-hearted mood so that we would enjoy the long day ahead. We've heard stories from friends that the photoshoot is a whole day affair and it gets tiring. Nevertheless, we wanted it to be a good day for us. I'm glad that without so much as making an effort to make the best of the day, we were already in high spirits and had countless moments of laughter and secret smiles exchanged between each other. It really warmed my heart.
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It all began with putting on my outdoor wedding gown and I was seated to do my make up. I specifically told the make up artist that I want a natural look and as simple as it can get. As she was "painting" up my face, Ray told her that it was the first time he's ever seen me in make up in the 5 years we've been together.

When she was finished with the make up and hairdo, she and her assistant chose jewelries for me. They chose the simplest necklace design they could find as they knew my preference by then. But they had a problem finding earrings because the bridal house stocked up some chunky ones which would probably overshadow the frame of my face. So the ladies decided to make me simple Swarovski-beaded earrings in simple yet pretty designs. I was impressed at their speed at making them on the spot! I was also glad to be getting newly made ones because it meant they were hygenic for me, too.

Ray wore a 3-piece with a vest and tie to match my simple gown and we were well on our way for our outdoor shoot. Our photographer, J, met us then and asked our names. I repeated my name twice but he soon forgot it. I thought it was an easy enough name to remember but apparently not for him. He started calling me Riko throughout the shoot. At first I was rather puzzled as to who he was calling but soon realised it's me. I got used to it and even responded very naturally whenever he called me Riko. Ray thinks that he was calling me Ricoh the camera brand. Well, whatever works for him, just so long as he does a great job.

We went to Sentul West where there is a huge, beautiful garden with very nice landscaping. We took some shots and thank goodness for that because we soon saw security coming our way. He said we needed YTL's permission to take photos in that place. So Ray went up to the office to get approval but was told that we could have 10 hours to do the photoshoot for a hefty price of RM2,000! We thanked them and left. But not before taking a couple more final shots. :P

J recommended we move on to the old KTM building in town to continue our photoshoot. We accepted his recommendation and headed there. We were stuck in traffic for some time. When we got there, it was about time for Friday prayers so traffic was very heavy. J made me stand on the pavement so that he could capture the background of the KTM office building behind me. It was really weird because everyone who was stuck in a jam would probably be looking at this silly girl in a wedding gown, holding her bouquet, and posing for the camera in the middle of a pavement! I burst out laughing during one of the shots because he made me do this real funny pose when I knew people were watching. At the back of J, I saw Ray standing there and laughing, too. But I think he didn't think it was that funny anymore when he too got called up the pavement to do poses with me. Haha!

Our outdoor shots ended pretty quickly but we were glad because it was terribly hot under all that sun and let's face it, the weather in the last week or so have been rather warm. Imagine Ray in 3 layers and choked up in a tie while I had to deal with a wedding gown.

We got back to the studio for indoor shoots. The make up got a little heavier with each gown and I do regret that I let them put too much decoration on my hair. I think I looked quite ridiculous and really should have insisted on simpler hairdos. But what to do, pictures have been taken so I can only hope they turn out alright. Or we'll have to choose pictures where I look like me rather than some unrecognised person even to myself.

I have to say that the indoor shooting were a lot more tiring than the outdoor ones. Simply because we had to pose in certain ways to accentuate body postures. We did some fun and candid shots with funny facial expressions (Ray was asked to do a cock-eyed look but he couldn't!), some classic ones with more sultry looks, some romantic ones and a few silhoutte shots.

All in all, I think we did a little less than 200 shots in a day. At the end of it, we were tired and my back ached. We had little to eat for lunch and Ray was already craving for bak kut teh as we were leaving. We drove far to satisfy that craving and the first spoonful was heavenly.

When I got home, it took me a really long time to fully remove all that make up that was on my face and to shampoo off the colour and hair-spray that left my hair stiff and life-less. I got a good night's sleep and now I can't wait to see how the pictures are going to turn out.

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I think you will be awed by the end result. I know I was with mine :) I remember my photo shoot taking almost twelve hours and I was already dead tired by the time we did the last few shots. Yet when the pics were done, even I was floored. The inner happiness will show. :)

i hope we will be awed. *crossing fingers* though it was tiring, now that you think back, it was rather fun and exciting, wasn't it? :)

Oh, I missed your wedding blog! Know why? I bookmarked it on " Bridal Hairdo.." and each time I opened it, it was still that page and I thought you hadn't updated it. Anyways, glad that you enjoyed the photoshoot! I'm sure the pictures will turn out better than expected. It always does. You will look very beautiful..!

dancing queen, haha...hope you've bookmarked the homepage now :) i'll cross my fingers and hope you are right about the result of the photoshoot. crossing toes too!

Who and where is this photoshoot? Mm...seems really good. I guess it is YOU ETERNITY...They should pay you for advertisments..

ju, you flatter me too much! haha. but if i qualify for any advertisements, i won't mind earning a few extra $$. :P

You more than qualify...and oh btw, if they need those background ones don't forget to ask me along. Won't mind earning extras too haha. Still remember Twisties?
Oh btw, you have not told me where this place is?

ju, you're too good to be background material la :) "this place" meaning the bridal house or where we took the pictures?

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